When the crime is on purpose, the result is terrible and no sincere apology is given, in these situations, it is not ok to forgive everyone.
Bully severely influence the whole campus life and atmosphere.This anti-social behavior not only seriously affects the physical and mental health of others, but also promotes others to have revenge, which leads to a vicious circle.So，is that kind of person really worth forgiving?Definitely not.
If a person with a criminal record goes out for job hunting, he will be rejected because of this stain, no matter what a good person he used to be; what a good person he are and what a good person he will become, no matter what is the reason that induces you. The most heartbreaking fact is that you may notice your friends starts to stay away from you. Even though they are not victims ; even they have not clue about what happened to you. The moment they keep themselves at a distance, you would know they don’t forgive you.
To me there is no real forgiveness. All the hatred and harm will not fade away with the passage of time. The wound can close on itself but what underneath would always remain. And all you can say is just let it go.
However when the reporter ask him do you hatred your wife? He said of cause I do. She is my wife! At that time I know what make hatred and unforgiveable, that is love. Cause you really care about
A famous philosopher Thomas Hobbes claimed that humans are born evil, since they don’t know what is right or wrong; if no-one had told them robbing or stealing is wrong, they would keep doing it. Since all people have to be taught before they take a step into the society, there must be some people who are haven’t had an education. A sin, a crime, can be distinctive and various; it can be stealing, robbing, killing, slaughtering, but it also can be humiliating, insulting, tarnishing one’s reputation secretly, without any punishment. So can we forgive this kind of person? The thing l want to say is that, l believe if you forgive someone who has hurt you deeply, that means you are admitting that you deserve it. If everything is taken a step back, then the existence of law and morality is meaningless.
From my perspective, not everyone should be forgiven. Most of the time, people should be forgiven simply because they don’t make mistakes or bring troubles on purpose.
I think we should forgive these people. It can not only give them an opportunity to reflect upon their own mistakes through appropriate ways other than to be blamed, but it also helps improve people’s state of mind and their tolerance if they learn to forgive those who have unintentionally made mistakes.